Tuesday, February 27, 2018

My Great Journey, part 13. Upcoming Gender Confirming Surgery

Rabbah Rona Matlow – B’rakha for Entering Gender Confirming Surgery

Thursday March 1, 2018 is an auspicious day. Jews around the world celebrate our liberation from Haman as we celebrate the Festival of Purim. For me, it will be a momentous day for another reason. 

I will be having my Gender Confirming Surgery (GCS) on March 1. While not every transgender person seeks this type of procedure to feel a sense of completion, many of us do. 

I was asked by a colleague whether I had a B’rakha (blessing) for entering my surgery. I did not, but I contemplated this question and came to a conclusion. As we are told in Sefer Bereshit, the book of Genesis, we are created B’tzelem Elokim, in God’s image. Just as God does acts of creation continually, we are God’s partner in this work. 

So, for instance, an infant born with a heart defect might have heart surgery to correct it. This is a human act that completes God’s creation of this precious child. 

For transgender people, we are created with a soul, mind, brain, that does not match the gender our bodies our assigned at birth. In order to sustain, to save our lives, we transition genders. For those of us who seek GCS, this is one of the most important acts we do in completing our creation in partnership with the Shekhina (God's Holy Female presence) who gave us the spirit of life. So in that spirit, the B’rakhot, blessings, I will say before starting the surgery will be:

 ברוכה את י'ה, רוח חי העולמים, אשר קידשנו במצוותיה, וציונו לתקין ולשלם את הגוף

 ברוכה את י'ה, רוח חי העולמים, עושה מעשה ברשית

Blessed are You, Yah, the Spirit of Life in the universe, who sanctifies us with Her commandments and commanded us to repair and complete the body. 

Blessed are You, Yah, the Spirit of Life in the universe, who carries out the acts of creation.